Welcome to best friend phone therapy! Wait, what? Aren’t you at TalkToMe123, the phone companion line?
Confused or curious? Don’t worry I’ll explain everything and when I’m done you will see the added value to your journey and how you can have a phone friend who is your best friend! But first, let’s address the therapy in best friend phone therapy.
I am not insinuating that the best friend phone therapy you receive at Talk To Me 123 is in any way professional therapy! Although I’m versed in many aspects of human behavior, and many self-help options (this position is such a great fit for me) I’m not a trained therapist.
Not discouraging professional therapy if it will benefit you! But as I’ve found out, most don’t need professional therapy, sometimes we just need a best friend. Someone to bounce thoughts and feelings off of. Have a safe place to express negative thoughts without worrying about hurting anyone’s feelings. After all, I’m a third party, I’m not emotionally invested. I can offer a more unbiased opinion, and show you a fresh perspective! Someone who can stay objective, and offer compassion is sometimes all we need to ease life’s burdens.
I’m going to answer that question, with a question: What do you need? I’m an open-minded compassionate person, who isn’t easily “ick-ed” out or judgemental. In my personal life, I’m the one all come to for that safe place, for sound advice or a compassionate ear. You are free to discuss your day-to-day life and even your most personal challenges. Many times guys need to be emotional, and I don’t mean crying, although that has happened. But to be vulnerable admit their doubts and insecurities and honestly, that’s not an easy thing when it comes to men’s social circles.
Women have it a bit easier than men, we are used to leaning on each other for support and advice. You have to admit, your male friends are far from the person you need to share some of your personal matters with. That’s where your best friend, phone friend comes in! What you will receive is an open-minded, encouraging, and fun-loving person when you connect. When we are logged on for your call, that means are here and ready to have some fun or to help you through a tough spot.
The topics you can talk about are wide and varied. Many of the ladies have their own hobbies and interests, if you find one with a similar interest or hobby you can guess what topics are on the docket! Earlier I mentioned that often we are phone confidants, and you share your deepest feelings with us. But we are also experienced to help you through the process if you are not used to being vulnerable and expressing yourself. We make it easy for you.
Some of the fun chats I’ve had were playing games online, and shopping online! But shopping together doesn’t have to stop online, I can go with you! Well not in person, but I’ve been shopping helping guys find a new “look” and maybe preparing for a big presentation or date! They take me along to get a second opinion. Can I tell you a secret!? I went along once while a dear friend was picking out engagement rings for his lady! I had a blast and she loved the ring!
Other times there are deep discussions about our everyday world, sociology, psychology, biology all kinds of ologies! (laughs) . I’ve watched on-demand movies, and tv shows with phone friends. As you can tell there’s just not enough space to list all the fun or topics you can do with your phone friend feel free to discuss when you call!
Don’t be afraid to talk with your phone companion about her boundaries, as everyone is different, and while one phone companion loves to talk about hedge funds, not all might! But don’t worry, no harm no foul! We won’t be upset if we don’t share the same interests, that’s pretty silly! There are so many phone friends here ,I know one, or more, will click with you.
So, you won’t get a licensed therapist but I know you, like many others, will feel the weight of the world lifted from your shoulders. The pent-up pressures of the week are eased when you call your phone companion for some BF Therapy. Kick back, and let loose knowing you are in a judgment-free zone and where we enjoy celebrating you! We know how difficult it is to find a trusted confidant and since we only know what you tell us, you are ensured privacy! In many ways this dynamic gives you more freedom to be you, the good, the bad, lumps bumps, and scars!
In these challenging times, we all need someone. Do you feel you could benefit from having a best friend phone friend?