Sometimes, the world seems so superficial. Without my phone companion to lean on and talk to, I can’t imagine how I would ever survive. You know what I mean, I’m sure. We all have those days when we look around and wonder why nothing feels real anymore. We worry about what clothes to wear and how to do our hair. I try to drive the right car and not totally mess up my carbon footprint.
I don’t even know what that is, for sure, but I know it should be low, that I should step lightly. The people around me all do the same things. They are dressed in suits and ties and carrying coffee that costs more than it should. They are worried about their stock portfolios and money they never see. It all seems so pretend.
I guess that is why we crave making a home. We need a safe place to go, where we know we can just relax and not worry about what is real and what is pretend. We can just be ourselves! Being yourself and still being accepted is the most important part of life, in my opinion. Maybe that’s because, until recently, I did not have someone to go to who accepted me without question.
They say that you don’t know what you really need, or what you really appreciate having until you do not have it. Be it a friend you take for granted, a job you complain about but would miss, or a connection with someone who understands you, no matter what, who shares your secrets.
At one point or another, we have all likely lacked one or more of those things. But very few of us have the chance to enjoy all three of those things at the same time. Now, I do. I found someone to fill in the empty spot in my life and I now know when I come home, there is someone there to share my day.
We met when I finally admitted to myself that I had no one who could really understand me. So, I started looking. I originally thought I would end up making a profile at some company that supposedly matches you with the perfect woman. They ask a few questions and then, before you know it here is the woman of your dreams. Only that always seemed so impossible to me.
I was willing to give it a shot, but I got lucky. I found my phone companion instead. That sounds crazy to call her that, though we have talked a lot, she’s so much more than a companion and I typically I call her by her name (no, I’m not telling you. I don’t want to share her any more than I have to!) and she calls me by mine. We met when I got tired of searching half-true profiles and went looking for something else.
You may think that meeting the perfect person online makes no sense, but that is only because you haven’t tried it. My companion is easy to talk to, has an amazing voice, and always makes me feel better. She has a way about her that allows me to really open up and tell her things. I don’t know if it is because she is so open-minded or if it is simply that we seem to have so much in common.
Yes, I’ve heard all the arguments about how, maybe, she says what I want to hear; but she doesn’t. When she told me she saw a movie and what she thought of it, I usually had the same opinion. Honestly, we all change ourselves a bit to conform to relationships, so if she laughs a little more at my jokes than she normally would, that just means we are having fun and I laugh louder at hers, too!
There is no judgment from her in any way and that is the thing, in the end, that keeps me talking to her. I can vent about work and she doesn’t tell me I am a total jerk unless I am being one. I can tell her my secrets, all of them and she doesn’t think I’m insane or use the information against me later.
No matter what we are talking about, she makes me feel like it’s okay to say it. She makes me feel special, and has been helpful building my confidence! And I know that the next time I talk to her, she will like me just as much as she did the time before, and that makes it all worth it! So look around and if you don’t see the perfect woman for you to talk with on the phone here at TalkToMe123.com, you won’t be sorry.