Online Girlfriend Experience vs. The Real Thing


Let me start out by saying that I hate referring to one as the “real thing,” as that implies that the online girlfriend experience is not real and we know that isn’t the case. I personally have a great relationship with an online girlfriend. It is just as real as any other I’ve had with a girlfriend I met at, say, work or the laundromat. The thing is, though, I had to differentiate between the two, somehow, and that seems to be the most common way and the easiest. So, that’s what I did.

This is my way of explaining to everyone that there really is no difference, at least for me, in having a girlfriend experience fantasy with a phone sex artist and having a girlfriend who lives down the street. Maybe you will agree, or maybe you will think I’m crazy. Either way, I think it really depends on the person and what you desire in a relationship. I personally don’t need anything that I can’t get from my online girlfriend. But for others, that may be different.


Talk to Me: Online Girlfriend Experience


I met my online girlfriend through Vox Erotic and their girlfriend experience website. This one you are on right now, as a matter of fact. I’d tell you which lady it is, but I truly believe that we all have different experiences.  I don’t want to ruin your opportunity to discover her on your own by telling you all about our relationship. Plus, I kind of like thinking of her as all mine. Why would I encourage you to come in and share. I do want to say, though, that all the ladies are amazing. You can certainly find the perfect one for you here.

Okay, back to my story. We met randomly it seemed. I was searching for something and she was there. When we started talking, we realized we had many things in common. We like the same movies and have similar opinions on other things, both big and small. We also disagree greatly on a few issues, but that doesn’t matter.  Like any relationship, we avoid the bad stuff and focus on the good.

Why I enjoy my time with her, more than a girlfriend I would meet here in my town, is that I always know where I stand with her. We don’t have mutual friends who call her and tell her I did something stupid, so the next time we talk she is pissed at me. We don’t have to deal with my family or boss or going to parties where men ogle her and piss me off.

When we hang up I know where we stand.  She is honest and open-minded. She will tell me what she thinks and not just what I want to hear. But she won’t change from one chat to the next. If we leave on a good note, we will still be on one when we talk next. She isn’t shocked by any of my sexual jokes or that sometimes I really just want to get off with her. She laughs and gets off right along with me, telling me that I am lucky to have a girlfriend who loves sex. I know I am!


We Work Together and Play Together


When it comes to a girlfriend who is part of my day to day life, I have been there and done that.  She was great, and lets face it, nothing beats wake-up sex whenever you want it. But we didn’t have that for long. She would get mad at me or she would be busy at work and not have time to do things with me. Sometimes she was tired or just wanted to shower and sleep. That’s totally okay, but it’s not perfect for me. I need someone who is more on my wavelength.

She was someone I had to introduce to family and friends and hope they all got along. They didn’t, of course.  But it was too late to know that until after they met. I wanted to fix it and make everyone happy, but that is hard. While it is great to always have a date for parties, I realized that what mattered most to me was being accepted for who I am and how I am. I need someone who won’t want to change me. Who won’t want me to be different. Or be embarrassed by my public displays of affection. That’s why I prefer my Girlfriend Experience at I get everything I want and nothing I don’t. Perfect!